“I believe that the most difficult phases to move beyond are anger and guilt. Often, the cause of death was beyond the control of the person who died.

Jeffrey fell into a ditch and drowned. He was a small child and did not realize the dangers of the ditch. We could be angry at the water or the farmer who was using the ditch to water his crops, or we could be angry at one another. We could be angry at God.

Emilee was killed in […]